As many of you know, we are almost 14 months into our journey with another 14 days to go before we re-enter our home base of Georgia. Before we left Atlanta, one of my closest clients gave me a very thoughtful book - Half Time by Bob Buford.
It is a must read for anyone contemplating what their second (or even third) act should look like. In short, the premise of the book focuses on moving from a life of success to a life of significance. I finished the book earlier this year and have had an opportunity to reflect on its ideas as I review my own Halftime Report.
This trip has been quite eye opening and therapeutic on so many levels for me. More than I ever imagined. I am learning things about my family - each one of them - while also gaining clarity for myself on what makes me tick. As I stare down the reality of a milestone birthday this summer, I can’t help but wonder and plan what my second half will look like and determine if I am taking the necessary steps to truly live a life of significance.
During this trip, I’ve witnessed all kinds of things from each of my clan from Nate (Race Car Brain with Bicycle Brakes) to Will (Justice Seeker / Village Elder ) to Beth (My Dreamer and my Reality Checker). Some very important truths have been revealed as we traveled together as a family and as we each gained new perspectives from our destinations and the people whom we met along the way.
Truth #1 - This is a unique season for us that will never be replicated in the same way.
We had our share of ups and downs along the way with several unplanned detours that ultimately rerouted much of our original itinerary. That said, I am still convinced that this will always be a special year in our family as we remember how we lived in 300 square feet for a year.
One of the games we play in our house is “would you rather..” where one of us presents two scenarios (of relatively equal value) and the person who gets the question has to choose a position or preference. Sometimes, these are serious questions and sometimes, we have more lighthearted or even silly choices. I love getting to see these sides of my family (especially in this season of life) and this game sure gets some thought provoking and often funny conversations going at our house. I know we will play this game for many years, and I am excited to see how the answers change from Will and Nate’s perspectives over time. Maybe Beth and I will change a little too...😀
My prayer here is that the memories and experiences we went through together on this adventure will be ones we reminisce about for decades to come.
Truth #2 - Low and Slow is the Way to go ….most of the time.
Having a spirited kindergartener and now a rising high schooler has taught me the importance of stepping back, doing my best to understand my boys and slowing down the pace of non-life threatening decisions and choices. I’m a huge fan of crock pot cooking and Big Green Egg experimentation - two methods that require “low and slow” preparation with the promise and delivery of outstanding results. Same holds true with my crew if I can just remember to dial it down with them and let time and love take care of the rest.
Truth #3 - Relationships (new and old) matter more than anything else.
We’ve met some amazing people along the journey from RV park owners to fellow wanderers to kids of locals and RV families on the community playgrounds. Many of these people, essentially strangers, extended great hospitality and kindness to us during our various stops. We especially had the blessing of spending one week with each set of our parents during the course of our trip (they flew out to visit us) and were also able to connect with several family members and friends we know along the way. We had our closest friends from Atlanta fly out to Monterey CA to visit with us as well. Very special.
My desire is that this experience helps us take the spirit of kindness and hospitality further and “pay it forward” at home as we meet new people and as we strengthen our existing relationships.
Truth #4- Comfort Zones are Safe, Growth Zones are Life Changing.
Before leaving on this trip, our life was quite safe and comfortable. We were blessed with solid finances, a reliable home and steady income to maintain a very comfortable life. Our friends and family were fairly close by which made our relationships also quite secure and comfortable. Our life was rather predictable and routine. Perhaps too comfortable...
After embracing this wonderful, crazy and nomadic lifestyle for a year, I’ve realized that life transformation happens outside of comfort zones and most often, in growth zones. Learning new skills , trying new foods, meeting new people and experiencing new places all created opportunities for learning and personal growth. I never thought that I would ever quit a great job, drive a large pickup, and tow a 40 foot house behind it every week across the country.
When I look back at my life and review the highlight films of where I took risks and played outside of my comfort zone, that’s when I experienced the greatest personal growth. My prayer here is that I will always have a healthy appetite for risk taking and a fearless spirit to spend more time in my growth zone - especially in my faith, my family, my work and my charitable giving
Truth #5 - America is truly a magnificent country full of extraordinary beauty in various forms - oceans, rivers, lakes, mountains, hills, cliffs, canyons and much much more.
There’s no way this beauty is coincidental or even formed by accident. I am humbled by God’s handiwork in ALL of it, right down to the tiniest of animals and their unique features to the massive rock formations and canyons of the West. We have been simply astounded by the variation, intricacy and range of His work. Having traveled to many countries in the world in my earlier life, I now have a much deeper appreciation for America and its endless beauty. We’ve kept some of our original bucket list destinations on the list to visit again in the future....too much to see (maybe we’ll finish the list during Nate’s gap year!).
Truth #6- Work will always be there when I am ready to re-engage in my next chapter.
The marketplace is a wonderful place with plenty of opportunities of all shapes and sizes. Stepping away for a year+ from an exciting and fast-paced corporate career helped me to think clearly with great discernment about my next move professionally. I am honored and pleased to have a wonderful network of colleagues, clients and friends who have been nothing short of encouraging and supportive during this year of reflection. While I do look forward to accelerating my contributions in the marketplace (still undecided on what and how), I am confident that my perspective will be different and my career will forever be shaped by the value of this year long adventure.
Truth #7 - Quality AND quantity time with family matters.
This adventure has allowed me to have both in large portions. People joked with me before we left on our journey by saying things like “I hope you don’t mind being around your family that much” or “Hopefully you all won’t drive each other crazy being in such close quarters.” The truth is - I loved being around my family that much and there were plenty of days where we all drove each other crazy being in such close range. That’s life on the road...I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
I’ve always enjoyed road travel days (before and during this trip) when I can catch up on life with Beth while the boys are listening to their audio books (while we also enjoyed 70s and 80s tunes alongside The Message on our satellite radio). This is valuable time for the two of us- always.
Having breakfast almost exclusively with Nate every day of this journey (we’re the early risers), playing games or telling jokes with Will at night or just making time for family fun have been huge blessings and ones that I will always cherish even more than the places and sites we visited.
So why all of this rambling on about our adventure? Simple...I want to make sure that my Half Time journey reflects what I’ve learned in these Seven Truths. I am committed to moving from Success to Significance in my second half and look forward to seeing what the Lord has planned for me and my family.
Utah was great, but we soon were on to something new. From Salt Lake City, we traveled to the town of West Yellowstone. We spent a little over a week here. If you haven’t been to Yellowstone Nat’l Park, I’ll fill you in on what it’s known for. Yellowstone has 60% of the world’s hot water geysers. You’ve likely seen pictures of, or heard of the geyser Old Faithful. Well, Old Faithful’s in Yellowstone. Also, Yellowstone is known for its wildlife population. It’d be hard to go to Yellowstone without seeing either buffalo, bears, wolves, or some other hard-to-find animal.
We actually pulled into our Yellowstone campground only to leave the RV there for a few days while we rented a small condo in Jackson, Wyoming, a mere 2 hours away. We went to tour Grand Teton National Park. I’d like to mention that the condo was MASSIVE! I had an entire room to myself (as you know, in the RV I have a small, maybe 20 sq. ft. loft), we had a living area with square footage the size of the RV’s, and 3 bathrooms!
Anyways, back to Jackson. Jackson is a very touristy town, and has many shops, restaurants and attractions. We enjoyed some time at Snow King Mountain, which is a sort of amusement park. I say amusement park, but before you get all excited, there weren’t that many things to do. However, we rode their ski lift up to an “alpine slide”, and rode a mountain coaster down the hillside. Snow King Mountain was a lot of fun for sure.
Also while in Jackson, we attended a rodeo. I did a Stories Behind the Pictures post on this one, and it deserves to be in 2 of our posts. We really enjoyed watching the cowboys get bucked off horses and bulls, roping young calves, and navigating their horses around barrels. It was one of those shows that you can't take your eyes off of the contestants. We were very pleased with the Jackson Hole Rodeo, and would definitely recommend it if you are staying in Jackson.
Grand Teton National Park is tiny compared to Yellowstone. However the hike we did, called “String Lake”, was totally worth it, and we enjoyed views of a crystal clear lake (you could see the bottom of it!), the 3 Tetons, and an amazing variety of landscape.
After spending a couple of days in Jackson, we returned to our Yellowstone campground. Yellowstone is split into 7 areas that each have unique landscape. I’ll list them here with a short description, then later I’ll go into more detail. For now, you need to get a general idea of the layout of the park. The travel time between adjacent areas is between 25-45 minutes.
1. Old Faithful: Old Faithful is the site of the famous geyser, along with a few other lesser known geysers. It’s here that you can visit one of the parks larger visitor centers and learn about geysers, Yellowstone Nat’l Park in general, and get some souvenirs at the gift shop. Old Faithful is actually a small town, so they have restaurants, a clinic, hotel, campground, etc.
2. Mammoth Hot Springs: Mammoth Hot Springs is an area that we actually didn’t spend much time in. We (my dad and I) visited Mammoth Hot Springs’ Albright Visitor Center to inquire about a hike, but other than that we didn’t do much in this area. Mammoth Hot Springs is also like a little town, with accommodations and dining options.
3. Canyon Village: Canyon Village is situated right next to the Grand Canyon of the Yellowstone. The Grand Canyon of the Yellowstone is the reason that Yellowstone Nat’l Park got its name. The canyon walls are a pale yellow color, and its definitely worth seeing. Canyon Village has hotels, restaurants, a visitor center, etc.
4: West Thumb: West Thumb is an area of Yellowstone Lake with a good boardwalk to check out steaming hot springs, and is a great place to start off your trip if you are entering from the south.
5: Tower/Roosevelt: Tower/Roosevelt is the one area in the listed 7 that we actually didn’t visit. I know that it has gas, restaurants, lodging and activities, but not much else. This was one of the farthest areas away from our RV park.
6: Norris: Norris doesn’t have accommodations, and is one of the smaller areas on the list. It’s a fairly good “central point” if you want to visit all of the areas of Yellowstone.
7: Madison: Madison served as our sort of “gateway” into Yellowstone as it is close to the West entrance. It’s probably the smallest area on the list, and has an “information station” and a campground.
I’ll recount our Yellowstone experience in this order: Viewpoints, hikes, wildlife, and other interesting things to note. However, due to the massive amount of information that we have, I’ve split all of our happenings into 2 blog posts. The second will come out next week.
VIEWPOINTS: Yellowstone roads have a ton of pullouts, and we took many of them. We saw Gibbon Falls, a massive cascading waterfall, which was very incredible and unique. We really enjoyed seeing, from multiple viewpoints, the Upper and Lower Falls of the Yellowstone River. The Lower Falls, the taller of the two, can be seen from both sides of Yellowstone Canyon (which the river runs through), and is absolutely stunning from both sides. Another pullout that we found interesting was one that led you straight to the brink of a (at least) 40 foot waterfall. This was amazing, since you could literally stand on the edge of a cliff and look down (with no railing) and see the water hitting the bottom below you. There were many viewpoints, but I think that I’ve pointed out the ones that stuck out to me the most. I’ll mention that there were a lot more that were interesting, but that I’ll mention in the “wildlife” section in a minute.
HIKES: I started off the “viewpoints” section by say that Yellowstone has a ton of pullouts. Did I also mention that it has hundreds of trails? It has over 1,100 miles of trails over a 3,472 square mile area. Wow. We took many hikes, and I’ll skim over them here:
Bensen Peak: My dad and I hiked this 4.5 mile trail that leads you up very steep switchbacks with an elevation gain of over 1,000 feet to get to the top of a mountain that provides you with amazing views of the surrounding countryside. We took a while going up this trail, since there is no flat part on any of it, but when we got to the last 100 or so yards, we ended up finding a massive snow patch leading up to the finish. This snow patch wasn’t just any snow patch, however. It was on a 45+ degree slant. And climbing up it was one of the best experiences of my life. It took us about 10 minutes to scale it since it involved a lot of “path finding”. We dug our walking sticks into the snow, and found that the snow was over 2 feet deep!
Artist Paint Pots: I went to this trail with my mom, and we really enjoyed it. Artist Paint Pots, near Norris, takes you to a very strange, unearthly site of boiling hot goop. Ok, maybe not goop. The Paint Pots are made up of extremely acidic mud and are very, very hot. It’s not a difficult, nor long trail to get to them, although climbing a few (maybe 20) fairly rugged stairs to get to the top is necessary. It’s definitely one that I’d recommend.
Fairy Falls: This (approx.) 1 mile hike took you to an amazing view of the Grand Prismatic Springs, which is near Old Faithful. Grand Prismatic Springs is an extremely colorful hot spring, and you can’t see many of the colors from the official “Grand Prismatic” pullout. But hiking Fairy Falls gives you an incredible view of it. We (my mom and I) had a fun time on this one, however it’s definitely not for people who would consider themselves “seriously out of shape”. It requires climbing a pretty steep hill that’s around 75 yards long, and will really take the breath out of you.
So you may have been wondering why, on the hikes, I mentioned that “me and my mom” or “me and my dad” did “this” or “that” hike. I’ll clear that up for you. Nate is younger, and doesn’t do very well on lots of hikes. So we decided to leave him with one of my parents on some of the days that we were in Yellowstone, while the other went with me to explore the park. It just so happens that most of the hikes that we did in there were not with him.
Well, now you know a lot about what we did in Yellowstone. But what we have in store for the next post is also phenomenal, so stay tuned!
Ok, this blog post will likely not make sense if you don't know much about or haven't seen the Star Wars original trilogy, or the sequel trilogy. You have been warned. So if you haven't seen the Star Wars movies, stop now and go watch one.
Now if you have seen the Star Wars movies, you'll likely have recognized something familiar in the picture above. It's a TIE Fighter. We saw this in Heber City, Utah, driving down the road one day, and boy did it give us a shock. For reference, this is an approximately 15 feet high life sized model of the Star Wars ship. So it's not really something you see everyday. Here's a picture of it in one of the movies:
Of course, we had to know more. My mom did a little research, and came up with this article:
Artist Randy Christ put together a replica of the TIE fighter crash from "Star Wars: Episode VII - The Force Awakens," using plywood, styrofoam and some old pipe. He even used a shotgun to give the piece lifelike battle scars that would’ve caused the crash.
"The 'TIE' acronym stands for twin ion engine — which power the craft," Christ said. "The two wings or side plates are actually solar panels to collect sunlight to power the ion engines. All of which is made up, of course."
The TIE fighter is located one mile north of Heber, on the west side of U.S. Highway 40. Sponsored by Christ's business, Sock City in Park City, the installation will be available for photos until early June.
The team behind the piece considered a number of other locations for the crash, and ultimately landed on one close to home. With five people constructing the installation, they got the scale model up in time to celebrate May the Fourth, also known as Star Wars Day, earlier this month.
"Since the Tie Fighter was assembled out in the north fields there's been a lot of interest by passersby, stopping and taking photographs from Highway 40," Christ said. "We can't let people get too close, because it's fragile. But they're enjoying it nonetheless."
Wow. What a dedicated fan. One day I'd like to meet this guy, but for now, I can enjoy theorizing what the new Star Wars: Rise of Skywalker will be about. Maybe one day in a galaxy far far away....
Ok. We’ve not done a blog post series under one title that’s lasted more than 2 posts except for the Stories Behind the Pictures. But, as I mentioned in Utah Rocks: Part 2, there was a TON of things to do in Utah. So here we are at the beginning of a third post about Utah.
It might seem odd that I am starting off a blog post about Utah with our stop off at Grand Junction, Colorado, but it was a necessary detour. And we didn’t regret it. We stopped at Grand Junction because we couldn’t stay at an RV park in Moab, Utah for the amount of time that we wanted. So, we headed to Grand Junction. Grand Junction, Colorado was the largest city we’d been to since St. George, about a month previous, and it had 2 National Parks within 1 1/2 hours from where we were staying: Black Canyon of the Gunnison Nat’l Park, and Colorado Nat’l Monument. Colorado National Monument is a massive plateau, providing views of the surrounding area, and of huge monoliths protruding from the ground. We did the 26 mile loop drive around the Monument, and we really enjoyed our whole experience there. Plus, Nate was able to get a Junior Ranger badge. He had to fill out a booklet asking questions about the National Monument, complete activities, and then meet with a Ranger. The Ranger asked him questions to see what he had learned during his time in the park, and then had Nate repeat the Junior Ranger oath. After all this, Nate received his Jr. Ranger Badge.
The Black Canyon of the Gunnison National Park is home to a very deep, very thin canyon. Here we were provided with amazing views of landscape stretching for miles, then a small (or so it looked) fissure in the ground, which turned out to be a great depth down. Black Canyon has the world’s 3rd largest vertical cliff, the Painted Dragons. We also really enjoyed hiking a little ways into and around the canyon. Nate completed a Junior Ranger Badge here as well.
After our time in Grand Junction, we traveled to Moab, Utah. Moab is a tourist town, and is close to both Canyonlands and Arches National Parks. Canyonlands National Park has 3 sections to it: Island in the Sky, The Needles, and The Maze. We visited only the Island in the Sky part due to our shortened time in Moab. We thoroughly enjoyed it, and were able to see some amazing views of the vast canyon. It was here that we were able to hike to an amazing arch, Mesa Arch, which you can get within about 5 feet. The reason you can’t get all the way to it is because of a drop straight down of about 1500 feet (with no railing!) under the arch. Another hike we did was Upheaval Dome trail, which gave us some amazing views of what scientist believe is a crater. This was a fairly moderate hike that involved us climbing a few hundred feet to get to the overlook. This is a hike that I’d definitely recommend. The last hike that we did was the Whale Rock trail. This was a fairly easy 1 mile round-trip hike that took you to the top of a dome shaped rock that looked uncannily like a whale. We enjoyed scrambling up the whale’s back, and had a good time on this hike as well.
Arches National Park also had a lot of hikes to choose from. One of our favorites was the Balanced Rock Trail, which was a very short (0.3 mile round trip) hike. It took you around a tall thin structure of rock that is holding up an even larger chunk of rock. This Balanced Rock will likely not be around for much longer because of erosion. So, if you’re going soon, be sure to check out the Balanced Rock! Another great hike at Arches was the Windows trail. There are 2 “window” arches, the North and the South. We saw the North one, which was stunning, and also hiked to some other lesser known arches in that same area.
While in Moab, we rented a Jeep. Yes. A Jeep. We took what was supposed to be an “easy” trail, and we really enjoyed it. Except for one part. It wasn’t an easy trail. It turns out, the people who rated the trail had the definition of easy being that there were no uneven surfaces where you car frame would bend and contort to the surfaces. Nope. There was nothing that said "Major Drops Ahead". We had heard that there were switchbacks on this trail going into the canyon, and didn’t really think much about it. Let me tell you this. Don’t ever underestimate the power of switchbacks. We got to the edge of the canyon where the switchbacks began. In the course of about 20 switchbacks, we descended over 1500 feet. And of course, we did end up passing people. And it was on a 20 foot wide road with serious consequences if you go off of it. If all that I’ve told you isn’t enough, this trail made it on “dangerousroads.org”. And we made it! It was really fun, and we had a whale of a time. However, I’d like to warn anyone that is wanting to try it that I would not at all recommend it for anyone with a fear of heights, a distrust of their car, a car without a 4-wheel drive, rowdy kids who can hijack the “kid lock” on your car door, or anything that may be designated under “phobia”. This is a dangerous trail!
After having visited Moab, we traveled to Heber City, about 1 hour away from Salt Lake City. We met up with my paternal grandparents and really enjoyed our time catching up and hanging out with them. We're missing them already! While staying in Salt Lake City we visited the Museum of Natural Curiosity. This was an amazing museum with things for all ages. It was obvious that it was a kids museum, however many small exhibits were for older visitors, including one bigger exhibit called “American Adventure”. It puts you in the place of an early American settler, and gives you multiple choices of survival as you navigate a maze. We all enjoyed this one, and learned some cool things about the early settlers as well. Also while in Heber City, we took a day to visit Salt Lake City. Here we visited the Mormon Temple Square. We were able to learn more about Mormon culture, and see their world in a new light. The last place we visited while in Heber City was the Winter Olympic Training Center, where the 2002 Winter Olympics were held, and where the American team practices in the off seasons. We saw where they do the ski jump. If you don't think that the ramp that they ski down is steep, then you should go to the Olympic Training Center to look at it. It's almost a sheer drop. You can see the picture of it below. Our campground in Heber City was a very nice one, and I personally enjoyed playing ping-pong with my grandfather in the game room. We all enjoyed the nice sites and clean facilities.
Overall, our time in Utah was absolutely incredible, and was definitely one of our favorite states so far. We are looking forward to seeing friends, family and home again, but will definitely miss the experiences that we’re having today.
Will is 14, and enjoys running track, writing,